Tuesday, January 23, 2007

The Right to Love .. ?

" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. "


As said by my friend and friends who have or had been in love..." The world is said to be different, the air smells more mesmerising, the environment around you becomes more interesting, you start smiling at the persons you used to hate, you think of nothing but that lovely person you have in life. In all, it gives you a new reason of you coming into existence into this now a lovely & then interesting world "

Felt happy for them...


... Nevertheless, a time arrived when it was exactly the reverse when they had broken up. The world had like come to a stop for them, which changes a lot of things in their lives... but you never stop living, do you ?
So, what does actually justifies love ? or more rightly said let me try expressing a thought on the Right to love...

"Jaane kyun log pyar karte hain.." a song which had Aamir khan singing in Dil chahta hai, very well clicks my mind when I observe instances like these... but in the movie end he still falls in love and expecting the perfect end, they lived happily ever after..

But that was reel life !!!

Coming to real life, one of my very good friend also fell in love with a girl citing the co-incidence of studying in the same college. He liked her and had also conveyed his thoughts to her efficiently, they were even good friends so the communication didnt take much efforts.. but in the end, it couldnt be a better story to tell..

He broke up badly, he couldnt forget her and failed miserably at the exams... Was he a perfect human ?


Yep.. you read it right.. Humans...

As humans, we have been endowed upon the right to express yourself, the freedom for expression but not fully the right to love someone..

By asserting on right to love, I mean that the right that the individual has to love a person, despite knowing the fact that he/she would break down if that person does not repond in an expected manner..

In other words, does an individual have right to trouble himself by falling in love for that person...




Back to the example cited, my friend, loved someone dearly but was not repaid in a similar manner, so did he have the right to love her.. But that surely did hurt him, and finally cursed himself for falling in love with that person..


Also, thinking from the other side, we cant annihilate the right expressed by his love, the girl..can we ?


So who decides the right to love of an individual...
Maybe we need to pay attention to statements like "Love is blind"...
or ultimately saying the soul of a person and/or finally to god.. And as usual leave it to god hoping that whatever he does is for our betterment..



"We never get what we want, We never want what we get, We never have what we like, We never like what we have. Still we live, still we love and still we hope, This is Life" - Anonymous


3 comments:

madhuri said...

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madhuri said...

i lve d wey d writeup ends chirag...its kewl...all said and done...leaves it ambiguous..lolzz..

Milana said...

Your friend definitely had the right to love the girl but life works in mysterious ways. Every bad situation teaches you a lesson, nothing ever goes wasted in life. The best way to deal with a break up is to convince one self that the person you broke up with was not really meant for you and there is someone else you need to meet, someone who is meant for you.